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Relationships… Organised

Leading Relationships in the Digital Age

Viral relationship advice held to the same standard as research, and a practical shared system for the work that keeps a couple strong.

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The organisationthe couple
MethodFour Ds
Todoist projectOrganise Relationships
FormatsEbook · audio guide

Everything is an organisation

In this book, the organisation is the couple: two people, each made of competing motives, building one shared system together.

Inside the book

D1 · Discovery

Map who does what

Include the invisible work: planning, remembering and noticing. Check viral advice against evidence before you act on it.

D2 · Dream

Agree on a good week together

Describe the relationship at its best and what each of you was doing when it felt that way.

D3 · Design

Write the agreement down

A relationship agreement and a shared Todoist project turn vague expectations into visible, shared tasks.

D4 · Defend

Check in, and watch for drift

A short weekly check-in keeps things current. Pressure, isolation and control are warning signs in any relationship.

Finish with a plan

The book closes by setting up a Todoist project called Organise Relationships, with a section for each D and the Habit Tracker integration switched on.

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